There are a thousand Hamlets for a thousand readers, and each person's personality is different, resulting in different marriages and different concepts of happiness in marriage.
But in the face of all changes, their ultimate goal is still to manage their marriage in the way they want it to be.
However, no relationship is always smooth sailing from beginning to end. It will inevitably experience ups and downs in the middle, some involving principles that cannot be forgiven, leading to disintegration.
But some people only encounter setbacks that are common in marriage, yet still think about divorce, without considering whether they can improve their marriage through reasonable management.
Marriage is never a child's play, it's not about stepping into a safe haven just because you feel like you need it, and leaving if you don't feel like it's not what you want.
If that's the case, then the so-called marriage is just a show of some formality, not a rock solid witness to the relationship between two people.
Therefore, if you really want a divorce now, it's not too late to make a decision after listening to these three sentences.
1、 Has your marriage really reached an irreparable state?
In the TV series "Gui and Anna", the marriage of the male and female leads also experienced a change.
At that time, your mother said she would live in the city for a period of time. Due to the significant difference in living habits between the urban daughter-in-law and the rural mother-in-law, conflicts between them were inevitable.
Anna repeatedly told her mother-in-law that she didn't lock the door when she went to the bathroom, but she didn't change her ways. As a result, she became a daughter-in-law who despised her when she got into her mother-in-law's mouth;
The mother-in-law stewed chicken soup and gave her son a big bowl to drink. Her granddaughter felt bloated after drinking it, but when she arrived at her daughter-in-law's place, all she had left was boiling water without oil;
The next time, the mother-in-law didn't wash her hands after going to the bathroom and directly peeled shrimp for her granddaughter. Anna saw this and quickly stopped her, but the conflict was about to erupt.
The mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law despised her and demanded that Gui hit her to vent her anger. Gui was in a dilemma and could only symbolically pretend to hit his wife before it was over. However, Anna felt that Gui didn't care about her, so she said divorce and turned around to leave.
Later, Anna's mother analyzed her daughter and said that Gui didn't really hit her, it was just for the sake of acting, and that the slap was at best just a caress, not domestic violence.
So, when Gui came to pick up Anna, he said some kind words and comforted his wife, and the two reconciled as before.
You see, sometimes what you call divorce is just an emotional impulse, and your marriage is not hopeless. As long as you find a reasonable solution, you can still ensure that the love and affection between husband and wife remain as strong as ever.